Enjani yona ukuba nembeko intombi, hayi indlela ekwenza ngayo oko phambi koyise! Akumangalisi ukuba athathe isigqibo sokumohlwaya aze amtsale ngodaka lwakhe. Kufanelekile ukunika le ntombazana ikhredithi - zombini umzobo kunye nobuso bayo buhle, kodwa ukuziphatha kunye nomlingiswa wakhe, kukho ingxaki ngaloo nto. Uyise makayohlwaye kaninzi.
Ewe, ooninawa kunye noodadewabo abazalani kwaphela, ngoko ayinakugqalwa njengento embi okanye engafanelekanga. Akumangalisi ukuba umfana omdala kunye nentombazana, ngaphandle kwamaqabane aqhelekileyo ngokwesondo kwaye phantse yonke imihla ejikeleze enye kwenye, ngequbuliso waziva enomdla kwinqanaba lezesondo omnye komnye. Ukuqwalasela ukuba intombazana iyayithanda (umfana ngoko akukho mbuzo), ndicinga ukuba baya kuqhubeka beqhuba olu hlobo lwento ngamaxesha.